Release the Trauma,
Return to Love Retreat

Heal, Reconnect, Discover Joy

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Treat Yourself To A Weekend Away;
Unplug And Heal! 
October 7 - 9, 2022

Are you ready to embrace an immersive weekend of self-discovery and healing, where you can show up, be honest with yourself, and put the past behind you?

Are you looking for a way to be honest with yourself about your past, understand what got you to where you are today, and a safe place to start your healing journey?

Do you recognize that you are a people pleaser, peace maker or caretaker? Do you feel guilty because you are feeling resentful towards others?


Living life this way can feel very overwhelming!

It's exhausting, isn't it?

Are you living your life for others, or walking on egg shells around people, trying not to say or do the wrong thing?

Do you merely exist, instead of living your life, yet you don't know how to change that?


Perhaps you are tired of picking the "wrong" person and being stuck in a cycle of abuse and angst. Do you think it will just be easier to stay single, so you don't get hurt again? 


If any of this resonates with you, this retreat is for you! It's time to over come what has been holding you back from living a happier life full of joy and promise for the future.


Sometimes the things mentioned above  happen because of unresolved trauma. Attending this retreat will help you to recognize what got you to where you are right now and will empower you to be able to recognize what has happened TO YOU, and learn how to set healthy boundaries for yourself.


You will gain practical tools you can immediately implement to ensure you leave the retreat fully capable of living a balanced, joyful and peaceful life.


Come away from the retreat feeling lighter and with a plan of action to live the life you have always desired.


Releasing trauma clears the way for you to live authentically as your true self, with compassion, courage, calmness, curiosity and confidence. Connections with others will be enhanced, your creative side will awaken, and you will return to living a flourishing life, loving yourself and others.

Tanya and Angela will guide you through workshops that are bespoke to each participant.


This all inclusive retreat includes accommodations, meals, all work shops and activities.


Tidioute is located in the Allegheny Forest near the Allegheny river and a beautiful location in the fall with the changing leaves and breathtaking scenery.

It's your time to release your trauma and
return to loving yourself and others!
Meet The Team
Tanya Bashor

Tanya Bashor, the founder and CEO of Impart Clarity LLC, provides education and coaching to women affected by trauma caused from narcissistic abuse. She offers a free Facebook Community, an educational blog, several different coaching programs, as well as transformative and immersive retreats.

Tanya is a Narcissistic Trauma Specialist, a Certified Narcissistic Trauma Informed Coach, hypnotherapist and level 1 Brainspotting practioner, and refers to herself as the "Return to Love Coach."


Tanya’s desire is to provide practical help and hope to women who find themselves trying to heal after an abusive relationship, to inspire them to rediscover the joy in their lives, live with purpose, and claim their own post-traumatic growth, so that they can return to loving themselves and have healthy, happy relationships with others.

Angela Failor

Angela Failor, owner of Shine Your Light! LLC, has a passion for empowering others to holistically heal from the physical, emotional, and spiritual consequences of trauma and to say “No More” to all forms of abuse. Angela has worked as a Domestic Violence Counselor and Children’s Advocate, Sexual Trauma Counseling Intern, and a Drug and Alcohol Therapist. She earned a Master of Science in Counseling Psychology degree from Chatham University. She is a Clinical Eden Energy Medicine Practitioner. Angela credits God, energy medicine*, and other holistic modalities with healing her life. She is writing a book about her amazing journey to inspire others to never lose hope!


*Eden Energy Medicine is not the practice of medicine.

Susan Kindelberger

Susan is super productive full-time mortgage processor at PNC, and can be found pouring Country Hammer Moonshine tastings on the weekends. She is a mom to two young women, loves her morning coffee, has the best sense of humor, and a huge heart!  Susan attended last year's retreat as a participant and this year is coming back as the "Retreat Coordinator". She is Tanya's long time friend, and will be a welcome part of the team this year, ensuring the retreat runs smoothly, all our needs are taken care of, and we are fed yummy nutritious food!  

Testimonials from previous retreat attendees:

"I was so impressed with the weekend, and only wish we had more time to learn even more and go deeper. The amount of planning, love and passion you put into all aspects of the event (from location to food to content) was easily seen and felt by all of us.

Truly, I am so appreciative of the eye-opening weekend."

~ H.H.

“If I could describe the retreat in one word I would use awakening. Prior to going to the retreat, I was yearning for balance and I feel like, for the first time in a long time, I got the opportunity to rediscover what that looks like. The retreat was absolutely phenomenal, from the aesthetic of the location, to the great food, to the wonderful group of ladies I got to share it with. The atmosphere was absolutely amazing and the knowledge and wisdom that was given was so empowering and transformational. It really planted a seed that will forever grow and change the course of generations in my bloodline. In just one weekend, I felt that I was revived, renewed and reconnected with my inner self and also with a new perspective on my past. The only thing I would say is that I wish it was longer but all in all it was well worth it.”


Frequently asked Questions:

Who is the retreat designed for?  

This is an ALL WOMEN RETREAT. Open to any woman over age 18.

Who should attend?

  • Anyone who has been in or is currently in a toxic relationship and is feeling overwhelmed and stuck.

  • Anyone who has a strained relationship with parents or siblings.

  • Anyone who desires to be less judgmental and more loving in life.

  • Anyone who feels that they are having a problem healing from something/someone in their past.

  • Anyone who has made poor partner choices in the past and is looking to break that cycle.

  • Anyone who needs direction or is looking to make a change in their life.

  • Anyone wanting to get away to the mountains for some reflective time with like-minded people.

Where the heck is Tidioute, PA?

Tidioute is located approximately 2.5 hours from Pittsburgh, 1.5 hours from Erie, and 2 hours from Youngstown, OH or Buffalo, NY. Nestled in the Allegheny Forest, and located right on the Allegheny river.

What is the accommodation like?

Accommodations and retreat work-shop area are all within walking distance of one another, all fully equipped, comfortable, and have a full bathroom with hot/cold running water, as well as a fully stocked kitchen area. Porches and outdoor fire pits available for use. Free parking. 

The Tipsy Gypsy Cabin - Bedroom 1 ( 2 Queen Beds) Bedroom 2 (1 Full Bed) Main Cabin (1 single bed)

The Tippy Canoe - Bedroom 1 (1 Queen bed) Bedroom 2 ( 2 Single Beds) 

The Shirley May - Bedroom 1 (1 Queen bed) Bedroom 2 (2 single Beds)

BFF tickets take priority for the rooms with two beds - first come first served.

What meals are included in the ticket price?

  • Friday evening there will be a wine reception, with heavy hors d'oeuvres served. 

  • Saturday, a continental breakfast will be served, along with lunch and dinner.

  • Sunday breakfast will be served.

  • Snacks and drinks will also be provided throughout the weekend. 


(Any dietary restrictions or food allergies should be made known upon registration, and will be accommodated.) 

What will the workshops be like?

The workshops will be a mixture of individual and group exercises that are easily personalized to you and your situation as you will be working on your own "stuff".

You can share as much or as little as you choose, and will still get results either way.

Expect break-throughs, rapid transformation and release of long-held trauma. 

We will have regular breaks throughout the programming, and you may opt out of any exercises, for any reason, without judgement!

What is the dress code, and what should I bring?

The dress code for the weekend is comfy-casual. Think leggings, sweatpants, sweatshirts! Bring layers as we will be both inside and outside all weekend.

We will be walking on the trail, weather permitting, so bring walking shoes, a rain jacket and rain boots, and umbrella.

Bring towels and washcloth. Basic toiletries are provided. 

IMPORTANT: you may, depending on which cabin you are assigned to, need to provide bedding/pillows for your bed - you will be advised of the size of your bed once registered. and reminded before the event should you need to supply bedding.

Optional - Blanket and folding chair for the fireside chat. Water bottle. Note book and pen.

Why are there a limited number of tickets available for this retreat?

We have limited the number of attendees to 10.  We want this experience to be personalized as much as possible and want to be able to give you the full time and attention you need to get the coaching and results you are looking for.

We are also still mindful of COVID and want to keep the number small.  

What will the COVID precautions be like at this retreat?

All accommodations will be thoroughly cleaned and sanitized.
The main meeting space is indoors and masks are optional.

Many of our exercises will be held outdoors.

 If you are concerned at all about COVID, you may wish to attend a future event. 

What does the local resident ticket include?

All workshops, and activities.

Wine reception Friday evening.

Lunch and dinner Saturday.

Drinks and snacks.