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Codependents and Narcissists - why they attract!
A narcissist and a codependent are often considered to be polar opposite, however both start off as codependent and they have a lot more...
Tanya Bashor
Nov 6, 20212 min read


What is Financial Abuse?
This article isn't about elder financial abuse, although that is indeed a form of financial abuse, this article is specific to the type...
Tanya Bashor
Sep 21, 20212 min read


What is Narcissistic Abuse Trauma?
Firstly let's define trauma. Trauma is described in the dictionary as a "deeply distressing or disturbing experience." Traumatic...
Tanya Bashor
Sep 12, 20212 min read


Everything You Need To Know About Gaslighting
Gaslighting involves a person who is the "mental abuser/victimizer" (the narcissist) and a second person, (you) the "victim". It is a...
Tanya Bashor
Jul 17, 20213 min read
Are You Abandoning Yourself?
#codependency #codependent #narcissistictrauma #toxicrelationships #enabler Are you feeling used, exhausted, depleted and resentful? Do...
Tanya Bashor
Jul 6, 20213 min read


What are the Signs You're in a Toxic Relationship with a Narcissist?
Narcissistic Personality Disorder (or NPD) falls on a spectrum. It can look different in different people and various situations. This...
Tanya Bashor
Jun 30, 20213 min read


Toxic or Narcissist; Does It Really Matter?
Have you started to suspect that you may be in a toxic relationship, perhaps with a narcissist? Or have you finally acknowledged and/or...
Tanya Bashor
Jun 23, 20213 min read


What the Heck are Flying Monkeys?
When we hear the term "flying monkeys" some of us may immediately think about the wicked witch in the Wizard of Oz and her team of pesky...
Tanya Bashor
Apr 26, 20213 min read


What is love bombing? How to spot it happening to you and what to do.
#lovebombing #narcissisticabuserecovery #impartclarity #traumainformed #narcissisminformed Love bombing is a term used to describe the...
Tanya Bashor
Apr 25, 20213 min read


Women's History Month; Reflecting On The Women In My Life
As March is Women's History Month, I have been reading about famous women in history who have made their mark by causing incredible...
Tanya Bashor
Mar 19, 20213 min read


Why Does the Narcissist Lash Out?
Narcissist Personality Disorder (NPD) is a mental condition that causes the person to have an inflated sense of self importance and a...
Tanya Bashor
Mar 14, 20212 min read


What is a Narcissist?
When we hear the word "narcissist", which often times can be an overused word, we may think it is describing a toxic, abusive person, or...
Tanya Bashor
Mar 6, 20212 min read
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Mar 6, 20213 min read


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Sep 20, 20204 min read


Your Thought Life Creates Your Results
What if I told you that your thoughts are 100% responsible for the life you currently have. Would you believe me? Would you dismiss me?...
Tanya Bashor
Jul 9, 20202 min read


Finding your Ikigai!
Ikigai (生き甲斐) pronounced ""i-kee-guy" is a Japanese term which roughly translated means "your reason for being". It is in essence the...
Tanya Bashor
Jun 17, 20202 min read


Divine Discontent
Have you ever felt out of sorts, or had that feeling of restless dissatisfaction with what is? Nothing is majorly wrong, but you are...
Tanya Bashor
Jun 9, 20202 min read


Change This One Word; Change Your Perspective
How can one word change everything you may ask? Choosing our words, and what we speak out into the world can indeed make a huge...
Tanya Bashor
May 26, 20202 min read
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